Self Belief is the Building Block of True Success
An
unshakable self belief plays a big part in being truly successful in
business and in life because with self belief comes freedom. When you
unconditionally believe in who you are, you become free to begin really
appreciating life and all that you already have. You gain the space and
energy to create your dreams, and the courage, confidence and
commitment to be the kind of persona and leader you want to be. Why...
because you KNOW you can. If you have found yourself being self
critical or doubting yourself in the past this post will help you to
understand how you can avoid it in the future.
How to Develop Unstoppable Self Belief
Lets
be honest you can forget everyone else, nothings caused you more misery
and got in your way of success more than your own psychology. When you
know at your deepest level, beyond doubt that you are a great, capable
and loving man worthy of all that you desire in life, in that moment
true success is achieved. At least it is as far as I'm concerned, and
if you embrace this fully you open up avenues that lead to your dreams
so long as you get off your backside and get into action! Yet I know
this isn't an easy belief for many to accept as true.
Like
everyone else you have flaws, imperfections and things you might not
necessarily like about yourself, who doesn't! If you can change them
great - do it! Work on them them but if not to then please learn to
accept them. Your perceived flaws and imperfections are seen as
endearing features of beauty by those who truly matter in your life.
Whatever you think you're lacking let me tell you now you're lacking
nothing, think yourself lucky for whatever you have because if you
don't true success will never be yours. There will always be people who
have more experience, knowledge and expertise than you, that's just
life! I still have thoughts such as "I am not as good as them", or "I
don't know enough yet.." and so on, and sometimes if I listen to that
voice inside my head for long enough it can stop me dead in my tracks.
Overcome Self Doubt
If
you're like me and I suspect almost everyone in this world, you too
have moments of self doubt when personal criticism and thoughts of
impossibility enter your mind. Times when unresourceful thoughts and
beliefs seem to appear from nowhere. What no one told me is that I
didn't have believe them! In the past I accepted them as gospel because
they had always there! Beliefs I had picked up from other people,
parents and so. The more I believed these thoughts the dreams I had
fell by the wayside, and I continued looking for an escape from my own
thinking in drink and drugs. Then I discovered something very refreshing
- a lot of what I used to think was in fact lies! Lies about myself,
my situation, my life, the world, other people and so on. When I
questioned their validity, more often that not I found then to be
untrue. I discovered the thoughts that had stopped me in my tracks,
filled me with sadness, fear and misery were a complete load of
rubbish!
Shut the F**k Up!
So if at anytime that voice inside your head wants to bring you down, criticise or chastise you, ignore it, turn down the volume, in fact better still turn it off completely. If what you're hearing isn't creating feelings of love and support ignore it, tell it to be quiet at least for a while! Make friends with that voice because it isn't going anywhere! That voice isn't who you are - you have the power to question it or simply dismiss the ideas it try's to sell you altogether! With continued practice you will begin to easily notice those thoughts which in the past may have stopped you being your best, will become less frequent meaning you are free to fill your mind with thoughts that support your continued success. You see it isn't the thoughts you have that are the problem, it is the thoughts you have about the thoughts that can be
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