Seven Successful habits of people who stand out.

Seven Successful habits of people who stand out.

Most people are the victims of their own circumstances. What they don't understand is that often their circumstances are a result of the decisions they make. Sometimes bad things do happen to us, and these are things we have no control over. More often what happens to us is the result of the decisions we have made based on what we believe.

So how do you change all that? How do you get rid of limiting beliefs and feelings that no longer serve you? How do you attract positive things into your life? You do this by changing how you think. The problem is, how do you change what you think?

Just as Rome wasn't built in a day, changing what you believe to attract what you want starts one day at a time. The only time you have is now. When tomorrow comes, it will be today. Yesterday is gone, and since we can do nothing to change it, the best thing to do is learn from it, let it go and move on.

Here are five things you can do to help you do just that:

1. Write in your journal daily. They write regularly. Gandhi, Richard Branson, Warren Buffet.

If you don't have a journal, I highly recommend that you begin keeping one. The key here is not to write about what has happened to you. Write about the unresolved feelings you have over the issues in your life. When you do this, then you can let those feelings go. Letting negative feelings go will help you feel better.

I learned that by focusing on the unresolved feelings I had, instead of the people, places and things in my life, I could feel any way I wanted to. It was OK to feel the way I did. By acknowledging my feelings and then feeling them, they couldn't cause me to self sabotage anymore.

I recommend the app "Day one."

2. Meditate daily. They Meditate daily

Meditation is one of the most effective ways to resolve anything. By meditating just 20 minutes per day, you can totally revolutionize your life. The reason is that meditation is calming. It helps you to relax, and it also helps you to stay in the moment.

Much of our stress comes from thinking about things in the past or worrying about future events, things we have no control over or can't change. When we let go of these things and focus on the moment we are in, then we can enjoy the moment and respond to those things we need to take care of now, not worry about things that may never happen.

3. Have Faith in yourself

Henry Ford once said, "If you believe you can, or you believe you can't, you are right." What you believe is absolutely crucial to your success because it will influence the decisions you make.

You will make choices based on how you feel, not based on what is really happening or what is truly reality. You are not your circumstances. If your circumstances are based on your choices, then you can change your circumstances by changing your choices. Believe that you will win and you will.

 

4. Write goals and plans of action and  use positive affirmations.

To have what you want you must know what you want. This is your starting point. Once you know what you want, then you need to set a goal and then create a plan of action to achieve that goal. Just make sure that your beliefs are in line with what you want. Otherwise you won't be happy with what you get when you get it. Your goals should be SMART.
Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, Time bound

Wrong or negative thinking can be one of the worst things you can engage in. When we're negative and pessimistic, we tend to attract more negative and pessimistic into our lives. Like attracts like.

Affirmations help you develop the right mindset so that you bring these things into your life. The key here is to use repetition. The more you repeat these positive phrases, the more likely they are to sink deep into your subconscious where they take root and become an automatic part of your thinking.

 5. Have Faith in God.

Remember, you are not alone. What ever is happening is for your own good. Let go and let doubts of your minds give way to love. There is a force, and He is with You.




 6. Be Grateful.

  Be grateful for all that you have. There are people in the world who are handicapped. They are people in the world who cannot afford a meal a day. There are people who have lost everything in war.





7.  Prayer : They derive strength through regular prayer.  Gandhi  regularly prayed to derive strength to overcome the British.  If you have ever in your life been faced with a crisis, you know the calm inner self
you have turned to in a flash, which has rewarded you with an answer in an instant. Thats Prayer, Everyone has experienced this power to some degree. It is not so securely locked
away that each human being does not touch it during some period of his life. Yet,
strange to say, the vast majority of humanity shrug it off as perhaps only a fortunate
circumstance, a coincidence, a "piece of good luck.". It is important for you to remember—every day of your life—that the same power that brings you good fortune brings you bad fortune and it does so according to how you
use it. The only reason it brings so little good fortune to the great mass of people is
that they do not know it exists, use it but sparingly, and use it the wrong way.